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    Recourse in defending yourself against false sexual harassment claim

    Anyone gone through this? Been accused with absolutely no proof, her words against his? What if he's found guilty?

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    you are so $#@!ed, dude.

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    hook up a bunch of electromagnets, put them in a cargo truck, take it to the office, and crank it up. It'll erase all the evidence. Do it because I say so!

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    You've been doing the hot or not picture thing at work?

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    Quote Originally Posted by EuroHorn View Post
    You've been doing the hot or not picture thing at work?
    well, that sure does wrap this thread up

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    No help but a /csb here, got a friend who's a high school teacher, he got a tatoo that only someone who was intimate with him would know about, just as a precaution against one of his female students ever making any false claims about inappropriate behavior.

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    Quote Originally Posted by unklphucker View Post
    No help but a /csb here, got a friend who's a high school teacher, he got a tatoo that only someone who was intimate with him would know about, just as a precaution against one of his female students ever making any false claims about inappropriate behavior.
    That's hilarious in a, that's how far our society has slipped in to a giant $#@!hole, sort of way.


    Quote Originally Posted by EuroHorn View Post
    You've been doing the hot or not picture thing at work?
    This chick wouldn't qualify for either frankly.

    Thanks for all of your uh, ahem help. Very informative stuff around here.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Texas_Straggler View Post
    Anyone gone through this? Been accused with absolutely no proof, her words against his? What if he's I'm found guilty?
    fify


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    I have a colleague who has been accused of sexual harassment roughly 10 times in the last 8 years. He's probably banged 30 secretaries in that time frame, so overall he's ahead.

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    The accusation was of grabbing her ass and asking to see her tits, of which he was found to be guilty. The amazing thing there is absolutely no proof, simply her word against his, no one was around(inconveniently for him) and she even admitted that to the "guy" in the office of "if your a white male, your guilty until proven innocent". kind of a $#@!ed situation.

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    Well, is there any issue that would cause her to make a false actuation? This is where I would start.

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    Unleash the shag on her; she'll be wishing someone's only playing grabass w/ her.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Texas_Straggler View Post
    The accusation was of grabbing her ass and asking to see her tits, of which he was found to be guilty. The amazing thing there is absolutely no proof, simply her word against his, no one was around(inconveniently for him) and she even admitted that to the "guy" in the office of "if your a white male, your guilty until proven innocent". kind of a $#@!ed situation.
    That situation sucks. Technically speaking, there is evidence: her testimony. It may be bull$#@!, but he'll have to go through a trial to prove it, and he may lose.

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    Grabbing ass and asking to see her tit is harassment? Seems like that $#@! needs to learn how to take a compliment.

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    That sucks, seems like you have to destroy the credibility of the eyewitness (her) until she drops it, or he's found innocent. No win, as long as she's comfortable committing perjury.

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    That is $#@!ing funny. well played......

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    The better question is...What does she want?

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    Probably stupid question here. You said he was found guilty. What do you mean by guilty (by boss in office, police arrested him, criminal trial, civil trial)? I'm curious at what level no credible evidence is required if all the facts we have are true.

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    Did they dust her ass for fingerprints?

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    The Texas Alpha Chapter of Sigma Phi Epsilon boasts one of the most striking fraternity houses at the University of Texas. But what happened here two years ago has landed the fraternity in a lawsuit.

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    That SigEp article is about the least surprising thing I've ever read. Good to see that the trash can punch recipe is still in use. I wonder if it still has a can of snuff in it.

    Back to the OP, your "friend" just needs to cooperate with the internal investigation and be honest. Don't do anything stupid like call the chick and threaten her, or send her e-mails saying she's a lying bitch, etc. In fact, don't ever speak to her again or allow yourself to be around her again unless there are people around. Most likely nothing will come of it. If the chick wants to go to EEOC, they will do a really scant investigation and then give her a right to sue letter. I seriously doubt any lawyer would take that case.

    I have to ask, what does this chick look like? We had a fat old battle-axe here who accused a guy of trying to feel her up and it was so absurd it never went anywhere.

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    Get your hands on her cell phone, have someone use her cell phone to take pictures of your ass while you're standing in various places around the office. Then text them to random numbers in her phone with messages like, "This is that hot guy I keep telling you about. Look at that ass!" Boom. Counterclaim.

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    I've only worked for larger companies that had fairly robust hr practices. In a case like this typically both parties are interviewed, statements taken etc

    If it is literally a case where your buddy had no prior issues of this kind, there are no other witnesses and the girl cannot produce any physical type evidence I'd be shocked if he was terminated.

    Now he may receive a written warning for having a claim filed but that should be it provide it truly is he said/she said.

    If as noted above an hr person told him "as a white guy you're screwed, I'd absolutely escalate this issue up the chain.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Texas_Rocks View Post
    Well, is there any issue that would cause her to make a false actuation? This is where I would start.
    What?

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    I would imagine 99% of sexual harassment doesn't take place in front of anyone other than the aggressor and the victim. Creating a standard where there had to be witnesses for an allegation of sexual harassment to stand up would effectively undo laws against sexual harassment.

    If this guy was falsely accused, that $#@!ing sucks, but I'm not really sure how one could design a system that both effectively polices sexual harassment but avoids he said/she said situations.

    He's free to sue her for slander if he thinks he can convince a jury that his story is more credible than hers, but generally, someone defending against sexual harassment would have more incentive to lie than someone alleging it, so without some sort of corroboration or evidence of past dishonesty on her part, that'll be a tough sell.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mizzou415 View Post
    I would imagine 99% of sexual harassment doesn't take place in front of anyone other than the aggressor and the victim. Creating a standard where there had to be witnesses for an allegation of sexual harassment to stand up would effectively undo laws against sexual harassment.

    If this guy was falsely accused, that $#@!ing sucks, but I'm not really sure how one could design a system that both effectively polices sexual harassment but avoids he said/she said situations.

    He's free to sue her for slander if he thinks he can convince a jury that his story is more credible than hers, but generally, someone defending against sexual harassment would have more incentive to lie than someone alleging it, so without some sort of corroboration or evidence of past dishonesty on her part, that'll be a tough sell.
    Also rarely does someone just go crazy and say "He groped me"! Usually there some prior string of events/emails/interactions that provide further insight into the people involved.

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    I honestly think that a majority of the time the two people start out having consensual sex (or flirting), and then the lady gets mad about something and it becomes sexual harassment. This is why it is beyond stupid to date people you work with. You should never date someone who is below you in the reporting hierarchy.

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    Tell him to bring his life partner with him to court. That should be a nice curve ball

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mizzou415 View Post
    I would imagine 99% of sexual harassment doesn't take place in front of anyone other than the aggressor and the victim. Creating a standard where there had to be witnesses for an allegation of sexual harassment to stand up would effectively undo laws against sexual harassment.

    If this guy was falsely accused, that $#@!ing sucks, but I'm not really sure how one could design a system that both effectively polices sexual harassment but avoids he said/she said situations.
    Sharia law takes care of that problem rather nicely.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jameslaw View Post
    you're screwed....
    Isn't that how this whole thing got started?

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    At this point you might as well just go grab her ass and boobs and call it a day.

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    I work in an industry that has a novel approach. They fire both of em. Not necessarily for the grab ass, but they will find something they don't like about you. Work up a case and go through the three steps (verbal warning, written warning, termination). It is how they get around the he said, she said. They let it be known they frown on office relationships and, $#@! it they got an entire floor of lawyers and going to court is just part of doing business. We actually get what we refer to as the stat sheet. It shows all of the current litigation going on. Funny thing is it is about 2.5 pages typed in about 10 font. If there is going to be some ass grabbing it is known to all of us that flirting is another way of saying "I really don't like working here, lets $#@!."

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    English, $#@!.

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    Quote Originally Posted by UTPhil2006 View Post
    I'll just leave this here:
    this is part of the complaint filed by the lawyers:
    "None of the defendants has acted to effectively secure the fraternity house premises. And the activities entice sexual predators to the neighborhood, if not into the fraternity house itself, as they know that at some point intoxicated young women will be exiting the premises”

    read that again. Part of the complaint is that having a party where alcohol is served entices random sexual predators to stalk female party goers outside the event.

    really?

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    Companies get in impossible situations when this occurs. They should investigate but then it comes down to he said/she said. And even if one witness is less credible, it doesn't mean that they're not telling the truth. I would guess that they found the guy to be "possibly" guilty of breaking company rules regarding sexual harassment. Written warning but no one is fired. The guy might have to attend sensitivity training. Therefore they don't flat out say he harassed her because they don't want him to sue them for false allegations. And the written warning and punishment helps to protect the company if she decides to sue.

    The guy should just write up his statement, sign it, and send it to the HR group. It's discoverable then. If he only gave a verbal statement, I would say that isn't enough.

    After being in corporate America for close to 20 years, I've realized that taking an issue to HR leads HR to protecting the company. It ain't about righting a wrong or trying to make the office a better workplace.

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    bunghole Blondie is probably perfectly normal.  Probably. Maybe. Who cares? Blondie is probably perfectly normal.  Probably. Maybe. Who cares? Blondie is probably perfectly normal.  Probably. Maybe. Who cares? Blondie is probably perfectly normal.  Probably. Maybe. Who cares? Blondie is probably perfectly normal.  Probably. Maybe. Who cares? Blondie is probably perfectly normal.  Probably. Maybe. Who cares? Blondie is probably perfectly normal.  Probably. Maybe. Who cares? Blondie is probably perfectly normal.  Probably. Maybe. Who cares? Blondie is probably perfectly normal.  Probably. Maybe. Who cares? Blondie is probably perfectly normal.  Probably. Maybe. Who cares? Blondie is probably perfectly normal.  Probably. Maybe. Who cares? Blondie's Avatar
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    Quote Originally Posted by TOR View Post
    English, $#@!.
    I laughed hard.

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    bunghole Blondie is probably perfectly normal.  Probably. Maybe. Who cares? Blondie is probably perfectly normal.  Probably. Maybe. Who cares? Blondie is probably perfectly normal.  Probably. Maybe. Who cares? Blondie is probably perfectly normal.  Probably. Maybe. Who cares? Blondie is probably perfectly normal.  Probably. Maybe. Who cares? Blondie is probably perfectly normal.  Probably. Maybe. Who cares? Blondie is probably perfectly normal.  Probably. Maybe. Who cares? Blondie is probably perfectly normal.  Probably. Maybe. Who cares? Blondie is probably perfectly normal.  Probably. Maybe. Who cares? Blondie is probably perfectly normal.  Probably. Maybe. Who cares? Blondie is probably perfectly normal.  Probably. Maybe. Who cares? Blondie's Avatar
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    Quote Originally Posted by Texas_Straggler View Post
    The accusation was of grabbing her ass and asking to see her tits, of which he was found to be guilty. The amazing thing there is absolutely no proof, simply her word against his, no one was around(inconveniently for him) and she even admitted that to the "guy" in the office of "if your a white male, your guilty until proven innocent". kind of a $#@!ed situation.
    Well, I think some women take things too seriously. Honestly, accidentally brushing up against someone's ass could be misconstrued as a grab, but if it's an actual squeeze, that's different. Same with tits - if I show a lil cleavage, that's on me. If someone breaks it down to "show me your tits", that's different. In both instances, "no" or even "$#@! off" should suffice.

    Also... It's not harassment if the guy was told to stop and did. If she said no and he persisted, then it's a thing. Is she claiming quid pro quo or hostile environment? (Sorry of that's already been answered.)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Blondie View Post
    if I show a lil cleavage
    pics of ur body plz

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    bunghole Blondie is probably perfectly normal.  Probably. Maybe. Who cares? Blondie is probably perfectly normal.  Probably. Maybe. Who cares? Blondie is probably perfectly normal.  Probably. Maybe. Who cares? Blondie is probably perfectly normal.  Probably. Maybe. Who cares? Blondie is probably perfectly normal.  Probably. Maybe. Who cares? Blondie is probably perfectly normal.  Probably. Maybe. Who cares? Blondie is probably perfectly normal.  Probably. Maybe. Who cares? Blondie is probably perfectly normal.  Probably. Maybe. Who cares? Blondie is probably perfectly normal.  Probably. Maybe. Who cares? Blondie is probably perfectly normal.  Probably. Maybe. Who cares? Blondie is probably perfectly normal.  Probably. Maybe. Who cares? Blondie's Avatar
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    Quote Originally Posted by Luke Duke View Post
    pics of ur body plz
    While I appreciate the irony, sorry hon.

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